I have never found it a problem having a haircut fetish, firstly I was about 13 when I first noticed that guys with nice hair got my attention more that just the run of the mill haircuts. At that age, I had not really thought about being gay, but wondered why nice hair got me turned on. I thought about becoming a barber more and more, I used to go to a very trendy barber shop where there were 6 chairs and one of the barbers was about 22, he was the one that cut my hair, as I became more familiar with him, we chatted like most barber and customers chat. He asked what I wanted to do when I left school, I said, I would like to barber too, with that, he spoke with his boss and he asked me to come and work on Saturdays. I was in my element, watching guys with nice hair and washing hair as well. I practiced on my mates from school and used to cut my best mates hair regularly' he had very straight thick hair, very silky to touch and reasonably long. I found I got a lot of pleasure from that, then when I left school I started my apprenticeship. I dated a few girls and one in particular had very long straight hair, every few weeks I would trim her hair, then her sister asked me to cut hers as well. I got enormous pleasure from this and knew this trade was right for me. After a while, I realised I fancied boys as well and experimented with that too, I now knew I was bisexual, to this day, I still get pleasure from nice hair, cutting it, touching it and playing with it, I personally don't find it a problem or a curse.
by Tony on 17 Jul 2024

Awful - actually. Terrible. It's obviously enjoyable on some level but it remains totally unfulfillable. You will always be left unsatisfied. It makes you feel like a total invert and outcast. It might feel normal and natural to you but to most other people, it's totally inexplicable and weird. It hard enough dealing with one's homosexuality, assuming you are, and then to add a weird fetish to that... no, for me personally it was exceptionally hard to deal with and to accept as a legitimate part of myself. For me it was even worse as when I was 17 I realized that my hair was falling out and starting to recede, which not only made me feel deeply unattractive but pretty much destroyed any chance I might've had of playing around with my hair. It was a very horrible time. I learned to live with it, as everyone does, but god I wish I'd never had it. Fetishes are the worst thing - and weird or unusual fetishes are the worst. Anyway sorry for the late reply - just my thoughts.
by Anon on 16 Jul 2024

I was very ashamed of my fetish too and felt there was something wrong with me for years. But after seeing a sex therapist who specialized in kinks and doing some more research, I realized having a fetish is normal and a lot of people express their sexuality through their hair. I’ve felt a lot better since embracing it and now I don’t feel ashamed when I get haircuts. I got to live out a fantasy where I let my barber choose what haircut I got and they did not disappoint. A lot got cut off and I looked awesome. Now I’m having fun thinking up a bunch of ideas for what I want to do with my hair. As long as you’re not hurting anyone and don’t do anything inappropriate out in public, this fetish is very harmless. It’s a fun one too because we’re more motivated to experiment with our looks and see what we like or don’t like.
by Anonymous on 16 Jul 2024

I feel the same. Ever since I was young/going through puberty I've had these feelings. I thought I was a freak and felt disgusted with myself. It's difficult to accept but once I researched and found this page and realised how many people felt the same it made me feel better. It also helped when I realised there are people out there with worse kinks. I figure if it's not hurting anyone there's no problem with it, but I still struggle now and again with accepting thjs part of myself which I can't tell anyone about.
by Anon on 10 May 2024

I just stumbled across this. Your not abnormal. Any more than I am. Haircut fetishes aren't all about getting buzz cuts and baldy cuts. Mines about guys with longer hair, keeping it long, cutting it long, successfully bucking the establishment. If you look at the readership and stories here, I'd be the abnormal one. Giving a guy a buzz, flattop or baldy cut leaves me limp. Give me an amazing head of shoulder length hair and a hot guy...look out.
by P.J. on 19 Jan 2024

I thought I had a haircut fetish, but going shorter and shorter then razor smooth a couple of times kind-of made the idea evaporate. I think I just wanted and needed the feeling and thrill of the experience and the sense of public exposure with nowhere to hide. So maybe explore your ultimate, get on and do it and then see where you're "at" on it.
I still get the occasional thrill from going super short or bald, but it just feels like an occasional treat.
by Anon on 15 Jan 2024

This is a very self destructive and harmful attitude.
The most common fetish is feet, which is usually considered a much more repulsive and dirty part of the body to people that are not fetishists than hair is.
Most people without a hair fetish are still interested in hair, either because they like styling it, having new hairstyles or because they miss it as they go bald.
Society is certainly more accepting of hair kink than others. You should not feel ashamed of who you are because you have an increased interest than most people to hair.
There are plenty of guys and girls into hair play, hair kink, etc, including extremely specific ones.
Don't worry or curse this kink, because it's mild and more accepted than you think.
by MMan on 14 Jan 2024

I totally understand. For me , at your age it was exactly the same. I see things completely different now. If you want to talk about it, look for me at @julianclippers in Instagram
by Julian on 12 Jan 2024

Hey! I’m in a similar position to you and not even 20, but discussing it with yourself and others in a non-judgemental setting is so healthy and powerful.
by Nathan on 10 Jan 2024

te entiendo, la verdad igual me siento raro, aunque después de leer sobre otros fetiches hasta me alegro del mío jajaja.
no tenía ni idea de que existiera el fetiche hasta hace algo más de 2 años, luego encontré esta página y me pareció increíble poder escribir y que puedan subir tus historias, a muchos no les gustarán pero habrá a quien si, con eso me conformo.
by FCM Historias on 09 Jan 2024

I was annoyed when younger to have this fetish but now I embrace it knowing many other men & women have the same fetish. My hair is down to my ass and sometimes does awkward when I get a trim or someone touches my hair because I get a huge boner and it won't go away. Usually I don't hard seeing someone get a haircut, only when I get a trim or someone touches my hair
by longhairguy8 on 09 Jan 2024

It does suck- trust me when I say that many of us at some point in our lives wished we didn’t have this fetish.

Although, part of life is accepting the hand you’ve had dealt. I’m in my mid 20’s now, but I’ve been more accepting of my hair fetish over the recent years. It’s been much easier to understand now that I’ve talked to other men who are in a similar position.

I highly recommend checking out maleshortcuts.com and joining the discord link on there. There are a few good people to talk to about haircuts and the challenges we face. It’s nice talking to someone who understands.

Best of luck :)
by Kirbeast on 09 Jan 2024